Have a bigger vision for life

Have a bigger vision for life while following people and making friends. People whom you follow has a great impact on your life and thoughts. They can help you to grow physically, mentally, emotionally and financially at the same time, but they can pull you down for no reason. Don’t judge the people around you by how they look or how they behave, or what they say to you. Judge the people by their vibes, feel the energies.

There are times when you follow the wrong people and fall into the trap. This leads to be in the chaotic state of mind. You must have experienced this at least once in your lifetime.

Are you a that kind of person who is unable to judge the real person hiding behind their face?

With the intention not to hurt anyone, you speak politely with them, but they take it in another way. They take advantage and get their work done and leave you. They aren’t available when you need them. My dear, talk to everyone, but do not open all your cards in front of them. Make them realise that you are soft, kind, but not a fool. set the boundaries.

I have seen people who can actually sense the vibes of another person and understand the true nature of a person within few minutes. Are you that one of this kind ?

In my personal opinion, it takes time to understand the people and until they show their true colours. Sense this immediately and be ready for the next one as they will not stop after doing once but will repeat again and again. It is up to you how you are going to break this vicious cycle. Remember, a crow will lead you to an empty barn while a parrot to sugar. Decide who do you want to be with? A crow, a crow or a parrot? This will open the door towards the bigger vision for life.

Having a bigger vision of life at workplace too

People send signals about their thoughts all the time, says Miner, but it can take practice to tune in. “When the messages you receive say that the person isn’t on the same page, these are clues that are telling you to step back and redirect,” she says as written by Stephanie Vozza in her article.

What people say or do to you is not always your problem. Sometimes rather I should say most of the times they have inner conflicts or past trauma which makes do wrong things to others. You got the scolding in the meeting for not completing the project, ok ! fine. Leave it there and move on. No one is going to remember for long. Even if people what to carry this in their mind, let them do so. You need not to carry that extra burden. You already had enough. This is momentary. Write down on a piece if paper. See where things went wrong. Learn from it and fix in your mind and go buddy. Make sure if such thing next time, you are prepare for the better solution. This is what we say -Have a bigger vision for life !