Can you make a house in a day ? Offcourse not ! It starts with a one small brick and adding more one by one on each other and joining them together with cement . This makes a strong wall. The process continue for the other wall and the next . It takes time. So is the process to achieve the goals in life.
There is no short cut to achieve a big goal. Be persistent, stay foccused and do hardwork are the few well knowm mantras of success. There is no one in the world who can say that he has become succeessful or achieved something big in life without doing any hardwork. Even if someone says do not believe in. May be he or she does not want to share it with you.
I have seen many people do not disclose their struggles as they do not to remember that hard time or they are afraid the others will use the same stratergy and will come up !
Follow these few mantras to achieve your goal and become successful:
Stay focussed :
There should be only one thing in your mind that is your GOAL since morning till night.Your mind should always be thinking about it. People may tease you but do not pay heed to them. Just keep going !
There may be adverse or challenging situation but you have to stay calm. Do not be panic in any case. Your mind can only work properly when when you are at peace. Do meditation or exercise. Start your day well
Be persistent :
Keep on adding a little effort everyday. No matter how small it is. Do not think to do a lot once and then sit and relax. Do you remember the story of The Hare and The Tortoise ! Maintain the flow.
Make a real life plan keeping your daily responsibities in your mind. It will work in a better way for you . A plan which does not include ground realities fails .
Be ready to accept failures and learn from them. This is what we call an experience later. Learn from your mistakes and next time, do the corrections and perform in a better way.
Be a learner:
Never think that you know each and every thing. There is always a scope for learning. Learn from nature , your collegeaus , your friends no matter they are younger or elder to you. Listen their experiences.
Maintain healthy competition:
The most important thing is to maintain healthy competition with other. Never be jealous or sway away with pride. Have a competition with yourself. False pride or negative competition kills the creativity , so avoid them !
Nothing in life can be achieved without hardwork. It is the best key to unlock the lock of success and achieve the goal . Come out from your comfort zone.
Even after putting all the efforts you do not succeed or achieve your goal. STAY POSITIVE. Start again….. You will get what you want ! I would like to quote the dialogue from the movie Om Shanti Om ( A hollywood movie) where Shahrukh khan says :
Kehte hain ki …… Agar kisi cheez ko dil se chaaho to puri kayanat usey tumse milane ki koshish mein lag jaati hai.
It is said that …… if you want something from heart, then the whole process and every power in the world takes it into trying to match you.
Do you agree with me ? Do share your your success mantra in comment section .
Good luck to all who are trying to achieve something big in life including me !!!!