Why can’t surprise be a surprise for someone?????


Sometimes I feel surprised  that how can some people have no liking for surprises or they  don’t know the purpose of surprise ???

Do they have some problem Or they don’t know to express themselves when they get surprise???

Off course we all know……

The purpose of surprise  is to make someone feel happy and wanted.

It really hurts when you give a surprise to your loved one and he/ she does not react at all


Whether you  like it or not…
Whether you want it or not….
I think you should be thankful to a person who has spent hours and hours to make you feel special with a surprise.
You should appreciate in reciprocal.

Think of a husband who  laid a table for his wife and when she gets up ,she goes straight to take a shower as she is getting late for the office. While going she simply takes a sandwich without noticing much about his sweetheart efforts and says “thank you”.What kind of feeling the poor fellow would have gone through??? His expectations was different as he put a lot of effort for this surprise!!!

Think of a girlfriend who wants to surprise his man by presenting him a shirt on his birthday and what he replies”Oh,isn’t it too dark for me?” Or “I think you would have got a better price from that store.”Who is asking for explanation and suggestions for the surprises???

Just chill

enjoy the surprise

and appreciate. Feel happy……



Pic source: Google( edited by me)

15 Responses

  1. Haha.. perfectly on point!!
    I’ve had quite a few incidents where I’ve been left feeling terrible after I’ve given someone a surprise! ??

  2. Im going to let my husband read this. He’s the worst when it comes to accepting gifts. He’s so cheap, especially when it is something for him. He always asks, “how much did this cost?” And I am crestfallen.

    • I can understand your feelings dear… though it is difficult to change someone’s perception but if he understands the importance of appreciation, it would be great achievement !! Best of luck from my side….be happy and stay blessed??

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